We Are Us: Law, Rules and
Taboos, by Laura Goodwin We Are Us: "Up, down,
out, in.", by Laura Goodwin
A Top's Guide
to Bondage Bottoms, by Michael Nelson
BDSMD/s and the Law,
by RUMPOULE
View From The
Top Part I & Part II
by Kellan Farshea
D/s Medical Advice,
by A D/s Physician
A Word in
your Ear (safewords), by Des
de Moor
SM vs Abuse Policy
Statement, a compilation of feedback on the SM vs. Abuse statement released
by LLC II in 1998.
Pain, by Jack Rinella
Thoughts on
Consensuality, posted to ASB 26 Mar 1994
SM, Fantasy & Fetish: Dispelling
the myth, The Fetish Network
Coming Out into SM,
in the Sexuality Library
Sharp Practices,
by Des de Moor
Electricity Play,
by Bob Kosovsky
S/M
Isn't What It Used to Be , By Keith L. Kendrick, R.N., C.H.
Introduction to Flogging, by the Society for Human Sexuality
Sensual
Spanking
Under The Lash: Techniques of Striking Sensation, by LordWolf
Issues of Common Sense, (Dominants) by RebelGent
The
Importance of Introspection, by RebelGent
SAFE & SANE
SUSPENSION, by John Warren
D/s
Play and Medical Conditions, by Yaldahtvah |
If
you're playing with ice, remember that ice can break with very sharp edges. Run your
ice under warm water to round off edges before you insert it anywhere, and don't use
fragile ice structures that may break inside sensitive body parts.
Zinc promotes healing.
Taking Zinc after heavy play can help bruises and cuts heal more quickly.
Use only paraffin candles for wax play.
Colored wax burns hotter. Candles held closer than 6 inches to the body can cause
serious burns.
To check that any rope bondage is not likely
to be too tight, you should be able to pass one finger between the rope and the skin. If
you cannot, then the Bottom may have circulation problems. If there is room for two or
more fingers, the Bottom may be able to get free. A little practice is all you will need
to the tension right.
Wrapping
is the uncomfortable effect caused by the tails of the flogger landing too high, and
wrapping over the shoulder. This can be avoided when it happens by stepping back (so the
tails CANNOT reach that far) and/or lowering one's stance into a deeper crouch
Learn, practice, and perfect. |
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